To the love unrequited: You are yet to find your first and last Love

You are one in a world of seven billion people, how can you have already met the best possible person for you? Love has got so much to do with luck - do not be disappointed, do not feel hurt and do not feel you are not worthy if you are alone in love. Someone whom you truly understand and who can understand and appreciate you back exists out there - often we are not able to find that person at the time we want - be patient, you will meet that someone, it always happens, but it sometimes requires a test of our patience and a test of our belief in ourselves.

Why I would choose the Volkswagen over the Ferrari :-)

Love is about compatibility. The word is compatibility Not similarity. Compatibility in experiences with life, maturity, interests, body type, temper, problem solving abilities, beliefs and principles. You can add to the list. Think about it, we all cannot afford a Ferrari, but most of us have a reliable people's car in our garage.

Love is Chemistry

When romantic love first touches us, the desire is high to let the rush of love take over us. If your body and mind has never been exposed to such a kind of love and you let yourself indulge in first love's massive release of pleasure chemicals, chances are you will end up in a very deep addiction before even you have a clue :-) and if, God forbid, your love is not reciprocated, a mind and body deprived of pleasure chemicals can lead to depression. So, fall in love with eyes Wide Open. Love is happiness and positive energy that is exchanged constantly between two persons in love.  If you are already deeply in love with someone who has not reciprocated your love, realize that the positive energy is not being exchanged. There is No One Person in the world that can make you feel as good. Do the simple math - you are one in a world of 7 billion people. If you have already met 10 potential life partners, your chance of having already met the best possible person for you is close to 10 divided by 7 billion or 1 divided by 700 million. The chance of winning the jackpot in Mega Millions is 1 divided by 175 million. You will certainly meet someone who will make you feel better. So tell yourself the obvious - and move on. Once someone makes you feel understood and valued, and makes the extra effort to stay close to you, chances are she or he will give you those decades of everyday blissful happiness. Stay close to that person even though the chances of meeting someone better will always remain :-) .